To paraphrase Taylor herself, all these are is mean. In all honesty, these tweets could be a lot worse. The internet is a terrible place to be a woman of prominence. But that's exactly the problem here: If a woman's relationship fails, she is blamed for it no matter what.

To be clear, this is a silly little breakup. This is not the end of the world. And this hashtag shouldn't be that big of a deal—except that there are never trending topics about why people break up with men. The assumption here is that Taylor Swift deserved to be broken up with, which, sure, maybe. We have no idea. It's hard to be in a relationship, and it's even harder to be in one that's under public scrutiny 24/7.

We could argue that the reason that everyone is focused on Taylor Swift in this breakup is because Calvin Harris is only marginally famous. He has a few popular songs, but isn't nearly as firmly on the public radar as Taylor Swift.

But what about Johnny Depp? No one is tweeting #IBrokeUpWithJohnnyDeppBecause in a week where his soon-to-be ex-wife Amber Heard has accused him not only of being a bad husband, but of physical assault and blackmail. We didn't see a #DumpJay hashtag trending after Beyoncé's Lemonade implied he had cheated on her. No one made fun of Chris Martin for the term "conscious uncoupling" even though the letter that used that phrase was signed not just by Gwyneth Paltrow, but by him, too. The blame for the public dissolution of a (heterosexual) relationship is almost always placed on the female partner.

Of course, none of these tweets really matter. They are dumb jokes. But the heart behind them is marinated in bitterness and misogyny.

Kelsey McKinney is a culture staff writer for Fusion.