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He’d been crying in the shower. I could tell by his red, puffy eyes. So I pulled myself together despite the…

When you’re a porn performer whose job is to arouse viewers with seemingly spontaneous sex, condoms can be a literal…

My vagina came with an instruction manual.

Happy National Coming Out Day, everyone! I have complicated feelings about this day. There are a lot of good reasons…

Bamby Salcedo describes the past month of her life in one word: "devastation." It was late August when the activist…

Not long ago, I was chatting with a friend at a party, eagerly explaining to him how much he reminded me of someone…

Like many women, I spent the bulk of my 20s “finding myself” (to various levels of success). Simultaneously pursuing…

Not long ago, I found myself chatting with a friend about the logistics of coming out to one’s coworkers. Given that…

Happy September, everyone, and welcome to your seasonal pumpkin spice-flavored Ask A Queer Chick. Since this is my…

Growing up gay in St. Louis, I knew about Boxers 'N Briefs years before I was old enough to set foot inside. Every…

Hey there, pals! I hope you’re all enjoying these last few weeks of summer, relaxing and reading (have you checked…

Paris Lees hasn’t had an easy life: Until 10 years ago, the British woman lived as a man, and an abusive childhood…

My friend Holly*, a thirty-something Brooklynite who works in the wine and spirits industry, has been online dating…

Do you want it to be legal for your boss to fire you for having sex before marriage? Or how about for being a woman…