Ask a Queer Chick: Should I stay married to my husband even though I’m gay?

Happy National Coming Out Day, everyone! I have complicated feelings about this day. There are a lot of good reasons people might not choose to live publicly in their LGBTQ+ identities, and pressuring anyone to come out before they’re ready—or making assumptions about their lives—is really shitty. Still, the…

Why the sexual one percent is delusional about the power of boning

Among the terrible things 2016 has thrust in our faces—Suicide Squad, overnight oats, Ryan Lochte—is much ado about our nation’s allegedly unforgivable “orgasm gap.” Surely you’ve heard that this is “an inequality that’s as serious as the pay gap”? If you haven’t, consider yourself filled in: Straight women don’t come…